Common Questions from Parents Like You:

"How do I know if this programme is right for my child?"

✓ Specifically designed for children aged 8-14

✓ Perfect for children who:

  • Hold back from raising their hand in class

  • Struggle to make friends or join group activities

  • Compare themselves negatively to siblings or peers

  • Speak quietly or struggle to express themselves

  • Avoid new experiences due to self-doubt

"What makes this programme different?"

✓ Created by children's confidence expert Sami Alderin

✓ Comprehensive approach with 15 carefully crafted modules

✓ Learn at your child's own pace with lifetime access

✓ Tony Robbins/Mel Robbins style proven coaching techniques specifically tailored for young minds

"Will online learning work for confidence building?"

✓ Structured to fit your family's schedule

✓ Children can revisit lessons as often as needed

✓ No peer pressure during the learning process

✓ Practical exercises that translate into real-world confidence

✓ Supported by our 80-page course journal

"What results can we expect?"

✓ Parents report positive changes within weeks

✓ Children develop lasting confidence skills

✓ Practical techniques that work in school and social situations

✓ Tools your child can use throughout their life

Let me introduce myself….. I am Sami and I’m a proud mother of three amazing children (not so much children anymore)

A daughter and son in their early 20s and my youngest son aged 16. This year, my husband Jonas and I are celebrating 24 years of marriage—a journey filled with love, challenges, and growth.

My passion and experiences are the reasons for writing this course.

It all started almost 30 years ago when I gained my CIPD (Chartered Institute in Personnel Development) and worked for large blue-chip companies in Human Resources and then as a Recruitment Consultant.

Then 15 years ago, having realised this was not my calling, I decided to follow my childhood passion by coaching children in Speech and Drama and preparing them for LAMDA examinations (London Academy of Music and Dramatic Arts). Alongside this, I have been interview coaching children for 11+ (UK School entrance exams), speeches, scholarships, college & university interviews, and adults for executive position interview training and public speaking.

Additionally, I am currently working as a LAMDA teacher at a local private school—the same school I attended in senior school, bringing my journey full circle. 

To date, I have had the privilege of teaching over 500 children and teens, guiding them to develop their confidence, communication skills, and self-belief. This extensive experience has deeply enriched my understanding of what it takes to empower young people and inspired me to create “The Act of Confidence.”

From a young age, I was fortunate to develop my confidence and communication skills through structured experiences. These early opportunities allowed me to thrive in interviews and public speaking situations as an adult. I believe that the skills I honed—such as clear communication, self-expression, and poise—are invaluable for any child. My aim is to help children build these same foundational skills, empowering them to approach challenges with confidence, whether in school, social settings, or future career opportunities.

These skills can be learned at a young age and become increasingly difficult to learn as an adult, as inhibitions have already set in.

I have a strong passion for coaching children and teens, helping them build confidence, self-belief, and self-awareness while applying ‘soft skills’ such as body language, verbal communication, conversational skills, emotional intelligence, speech, and so much more.

Why “The Act of Confidence”? Confidence is something we train, it is a learned practice, and it is often acted until perfected. Watching my own kids grow and face their unique challenges, I realised that confidence is a critical factor in their success and happiness. This inspired me to create a course that empowers parents with the knowledge and tools to help their children build strong self-esteem and resilience.

“The Act of Confidence” is a direct ‘one to one’ coaching course that has been created with the belief that every parent deserves the tools and support to help their children thrive. The course is designed to provide practical strategies and insights that your child or teen can implement in their daily life, making a positive impact on your child’s development.

So now you know more about me, you have an insight into why I have so much passion for teaching children and teens these skills and why I created my course, “The Act of Confidence.”

Thank you, and I hope your child gets the best out of my course!

Sami x

Your Complete Confidence Journey

5 Transformative Modules (15 Lessons)

A comprehensive confidence-building programme combining expert video content with interactive journal work. While the core video content is 8 hours, your child will spend approximately 10 hours on their complete journey, including valuable reflection and practical exercises through our 80-page course journal.

Module 1: Your Journey To Self Discovery

Help your child understand their unique strengths and build their confidence foundation

• The Path to Self Confidence (24:20)

• Knowing Yourself (36:05)

• Personality Power Up (18:51)

Module 2: Nurturing Growth and Positivity

Transform self-doubt into self-belief with practical confidence-building tools

• Growth Mindset (21:38)

• Positive Thinking (21:08)

• Inner Critic vs Inner Coach (7:36)

Module 3: The Art of Connection

Develop essential social skills for making friends and speaking up in groups

• Communication Styles (20:41)

• Verbal Communication (42:40)

• Non-Verbal Communication (25:47)

Module 4: Unleash Your Voice

Master the art of confident self-expression in any situation

• Storytelling (24:31)

• The Art of Conversation (18:48)

• Active Listening (25:44)

Module 5: The Self-Care Journey

Build lasting confidence through proven mindfulness and self-compassion techniques

• Self-Compassion (23:02)

• Mastering Mindfulness (38:34)

• The Power of Gratitude (29:09)

Each module is designed to be worked through thoughtfully, combining video learning with guided journal activities. This balanced approach ensures your child not only learns but truly integrates these vital confidence skills into their daily life.